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Yes, we all like receiving gifts, and weddings are an ideal occasion for giving, as friends and loved ones customarily honor its commitment to the new bride for the wedding shower gifts. As for the happy couple, just remember to always feel privileged – not entitled. Approach thank-you notes with much thought and organization like the rest of your wedding planning process.

Rules and Etiquette

Send notes of appreciation to acknowledge everything from place settings for gifts of time or talent. Remember – a separate, handwritten note must be sent for each wedding gift or an act of kindness. Start sending as soon thanks as gifts arrive, even if it's before their wedding (but make sure to use her maiden name). The gifts they receive on your big day should be followed up with a note of thanks to the latest one month after returning from his honeymoon (now you can use your new last name). To facilitate the process, keeping track of wedding gifts and cards of thanks on the same list of names and addresses used on the invitations. Personalize the thank you cards by ordering with your monogram or with a picture of your big day on the front.

What to say – Writing Samples

Thank you notes are written and signed by one person but should express gratitude The bride and groom. ( "Mike and I sincerely appreciated …") refer directly to the gift of himself. For monetary gifts, indicate how the money will be used, if you mention the specific amount is optional. Here are some examples of wording suggested to begin:

A friend or close relative:

Dear Aunt Sandy,

Thank you for the generous gift. As you know, John and I have been saving for a new home and your contribution will help. We can not wait to get you to a launch party soon! Thanks again for thinking of us and for sharing our special day.

To a friend more distant relative or colleague:

Dear Sir, Ms. Lee,

Thank you very much for the beautiful vase. It will be great in our kitchen table, and Meghan and I think of you each time we use it. Thanks again for sharing our joy.

For someone who could not attend the wedding, but sent a gift:

Dear Denise & Chris,

Thank you both very much for completing our sterling place setting collection. Martin and I use it every special dinner reception. I really missed you so much in our special day and hope you soon.

For someone who was not invited to the wedding, but sent a gift anyway:

Dear Lorie & Mike,

Thank you both so much for the gift certificate. Amanda and I look forward to buying new appliances for the kitchen with her. Thanks again for thinking of us during this special time in our lives.

For more stationery advice, visit the complete wedding invitation and stationery guide at Elegala.com – Elegant Galas Made Simple.

Cori Russell is editor for Elegala.com and Gala Weddings Magazine. Elegala.com is a comprehensive wedding planning resource with a national directory of wedding venues and services, along with articles, expert advice, checklists and photo galleries to lead brides through every step of the planning process.