washington state honeymoon destinations

/ Destination flight style of the wedding … now everyone wants to come, but I wanted to be intimate?
My boyfriend and I are planning to wed on the beach along the coast of Washington state in June. We live only about 450 miles east in eastern Washington. I wanted to be intimate and flight-like. My parents were planning to come and be our witnesses. And they were going to have a reception when we return. However, as soon as everyone heard what we wanted do, half my family was invited herself and now plan to go. I do not want to be rude and say no, but it's not really finish what I wanted. Am I being unreasonable? This also assumes that part of our honeymoon, and a host of other walk along does not sound very fun. Should I say anything, and let whoever wants to come, to come? Or is there a nice way for me, so they know they really wanted to be just us two?
Since others know your wedding is not called escape … Part of being an adult to say no – what these people say that you are having only close relatives to the wedding, and that's all. I can understand that people are portrayed a wedding party who have not received an invitation …. Right?
