marriage honeymoon period
Okie, now you are newly married and is very excited about your new home. Wow, 5 rooms and a large lounge with a new set of furniture that is so proud because you spent your entire year looking for.
Now his mother is no longer living with you and what he's doing the housechores.
To complicate matters further, his wife and you have not even swept the floor in his life before.
Some may exclaim: "We will hire a maid."
Not everyone can afford that, especially now have mountains of debts to pay after their wedding. Not forgetting that his mother still has $ 25,000 for splendid wedding was held at the venue for their dream wedding in beautiful Vera Wang wedding dress designed.
Oppps, maybe even had spent U.S. $ 2,000 just to decorate your wedding car.
Therefore, having a domestic helper is not a solution.
For the first days after returning from his honeymoon, may still be a honeymoon period for both. However, both for washing clothes and ironing, that is, when conflict may arise if there is no agreement initially.
Traditionally, wives should do all housechores from cooking to ironing clothes. However, times have changed and now there must be at least an even distribution of housework.
And you wash clothes and iron them her husband?
Sounds easy. Wait until he threw tantrums constantly as they refuse to do chores. You have not even touched a broom in his life.
This is not married life of your dreams!
Welcome to the reality of marriage.
Wait, do not go. There is more. Who will cook, wash dishes, do marketing, sweeping the floor, the mafia of the floor, washing windows, and so on? (I share another 100 more.)
The list is endless. Once again, welcome to real life marriage.
You can complain you are doing more than her husband and therefore there is no comparison. You spent noon to be really angry about the housework, her husband is doing less and is more likely and unknowingly angry with yourself that this is not what wanted.
I also face the same challenge. We have to sign a contract to do what.
Haha, not so serious at this point, but is based on mutual trust. I can say that we are still learning to compromise and we are still learning. It is still a long way to go and we're still adapting quite. It may be better.
Thus, at least, learn how to handle the vacuum of his father before marriage. It helps a little in a small way.
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