Many kids think of spoil and raise a family. We men tend to look at the family when we dream of our future, but not as much as the wedding itself. We know that there will be a ceremony, reception, perhaps a bachelor party (OK. .. challenging a bachelor party) and a honeymoon, but beyond that the only detail than most of us tend to deal is the cost.
A wise man once said "a wedding for the groom does not happen, it happens to the bride." No doubt, the wedding day is actually the girlfriend Although we have been dreaming of a family and children, our future wife may have been dreaming about it, but not fast-forward through the wedding day. It is very likely that his wife has been planned and dreamed about this day since she was a child. Helping your doing his dream a reality is the true gift I can give you the first time as her new husband. Here are three tips to do just that!
1. Cost-Weddings cost money, but if the budget properly and carefully you do not have to break the bank. Work with your wife to be in a budget for the ceremony. If your future wife has focus feels is a bit too much on the expensive side, instead of trying to talk it out, look at your budget and see if there is a way to pay. One way to ensure that we are not spending too much money in one area is to have at least three quotes for each service you use. You will be surprised how much they vary. Do not be afraid ask friends and relatives for help.
2. Best Man-Tu Novia depend largely on its maiden and / or matron of honor. You must be able to rely on their best man. You should choose someone who can manage his time and is not in financial straits. Not only that people plan his bachelor party, and toast their happiness, to be responsible for many unexpected details. This should be someone you trust to do a job.
3. Vows ceremony or a toast to his bride-Some couples decide have the traditional vows of their wedding. If this is your situation, consider his new wife a toast at the reception. Imagine their future life together. Children, the average age and growing old together till death do them part. Imagine all the lives that will live together. Imagine the pains and pleasures of life. Ignore looking at the decoration, guests and everything else. Focusing only on your wife and you will find a transformation taking place in his thoughts. If you write your own vows, think of the same things. Such words from the heart will add a magical night for you and her.
Remember that this is the day celebrated every anniversary for the rest of his life. That the anniversary be a celebration of how it started to grow together as a couple. Congratulations and have a great wedding!